Parents Talk: Do You Talk to Your Kids About Politics?
Use this forum to discuss kid issues with other parents. This week, we tackle children and politics.
Election Day may be over, but that doesn't mean we will stop hearing about politics any time soon.
This varies widely with age of course, but many kids want to know what is being talked about on TV, the radio and at family gatherings. So when political chatter arises, do you explain to your children what's being talked about or do you give a general answer?
Do you feel like your kids should believe what you do or make up their own minds?
"Of course, part of the cool thing about being a parent is creating 'mini-me's,' and in Washington that means creating a new generation of party members, regardless of what party you're affiliated with," wrote Tracy Grant in a Washington Post blog.
And, what if your family is split on an issue/candidate or you're not ready to explain a given issue to your child yet?
How do you handle kids and politics? Tell us in the comments are below.
Will
9:08 am on Thursday, November 8, 2012
I thinking talking to your children about politics is important. Talking to them about our beliefs is very important, but we also explain that every one has their own opinion and beliefs. My 6yo has been very interested and has asked many questions. It's been fun to see him get excited about the election and to try to understand the differences in the candidates.
Randy Bachman
11:14 am on Thursday, November 8, 2012
Family values and political values go hand in hand. Just think if our government leaders shared a meal at the dinner table. Maybe they could actually talk, and get something done. The current leader of the household isn't doing his job!
Al Tate
1:54 pm on Thursday, November 8, 2012
Randy, the leader of the house needs support from all members of the family. If everyone just bickers and complains and undermines what the leader is trying to accomplish, nothing gets done. And if the leader really wasn't doing his job, then why did this current leader get re-elected? What does it say for the challenger? How bad must have he been then?
James Sanna
2:56 pm on Thursday, November 8, 2012
What about talking politics with your parents (or uncles/aunts/grandparents)? Anyone have any tips they want to share, now that Thanksgiving's on its way...?
Becky Glander
10:17 pm on Thursday, November 8, 2012
Good point, James. It seems there is always a relative or 2 who have very loud opinions (usually ones you don't agree with). How do you set a good example for your kids when you want to speak up?
Ruth Olson-Martin
8:50 am on Friday, November 9, 2012
Wanting to "speak up" may be what parents are doing wrong in front of their kids. All kids learn is how to argue and try to win with verbal arguments....that is for law school. The best thing is to put the energy wanting to argue into physical getting involved with personally working with candidates to get to know their values first-hand, rather than getting upset by what arguers love to spread...bad influence on our kids. Get involved at the city council level to know first-hand, bring children to meetings to observe...discuss how others behaved on the way home, was it helpful, was it against the way we want to behave, etc. When we as parents talk too much with showing our upset, that bothers kids in ways we can't imagine.
Joshua
12:46 pm on Friday, November 9, 2012
When it comes to politics, there's a difference between telling your kids what you as a parent believe versus telling them that your beliefs are the correct ones. I think that's the fundamental problem with my generation, and possibly the baby boomers. The older I get, the more it seems that intolerance is the reason that's polarizing this nation.
I also think that the media and mass communication has a factor in this trend.
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Mikki Morrissette
5:24 pm on Thursday, November 15, 2012
I recently finished work with 7 Minneapolis middle schoolers who interviewed 12 family, friends and colleagues of Paul and Sheila Wellstone. The ultimate take-away for the book they helped write, "Be the Change," is that: 1) it is important to know what you stand for -- and then stand for it even if it is unpopular; 2) one individual can make a big difference in the world simply by respectfully listening to people whose voices don't often get heard, and then organizing a collective voice to help them speak -- at the polls, in the legislature, with community leaders.
And yes.... I think it's never too early to share that true message. From page 58: When we asked Dan Cramer [Grassroots Solutions founder] about Paul’s greatest accomplishment, he said that it probably was not a single piece of legislation that Paul helped get passed. He thinks Paul would say that it was his visits to Minnesota schools, into communities all across the state, having conversations with kids about politics, about what is going on in the world. "He talked with thousands of kids about the future. ‘That’s the most important thing I did,’ I think Paul would say.”